It’s not difficult to determine if a girl is interested in you.
I am a man, and it has been almost impossible for me to be a woman my entire life.
It is actually much easier to understand women’s psychology if you do some research. Women are not as complicated as you might imagine.
Today, I will share every sign that a girl is interested in you.
We’ll begin with 15 signs that she likes you. We’ll then discuss 20 personality/social cues she has that indicate her interest in you.
Let’s go…
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13 physical signs that can help you tell if a girl is interested in you.
1. She stands taller, pulls back her shoulders and sucks in her stomach.
If she is taller and pulls her stomach in, it’s a sign she’s interested in you.
She subconsciously wants to impress you.
When she walks by you, you can quickly check her posture. If she sees you, she will automatically alter her posture as shown above.
She might also wiggle her hips as if she were on the catwalk.
Other subconscious physical signs include touching her neck, pushing her neck out, or licking her lips.
Why?
Because she wants to enhance her face or body.
Other signs of interest include running her hands through her hair and tilting her head.
If you are curious, here is an exaggerated version of how they would walk if they knew you were looking (known as “the catwalk”).
2. Her feet point towards you.
Psychologists believe that this is one of the best nonverbal cues for knowing if someone likes your.
This is because we aren’t aware of our feet.
Pay attention to:
If her feet point toward you, it’s a good sign.
– If they point completely away from you or towards the door, she might not be interested.
If she keeps her feet under her while she sits or if she holds her legs straight out in front of you, it could be a sign that she is nervous.
If a girl is sitting with her feet apart from their body, it could indicate that she’s relaxed around you. This is a sign she enjoys spending time with you.
3. Your body is turned toward her
The same goes for body orientation. It is a sign that she likes to be around you.
A great sign is for her to turn her body towards you and give you all her attention is turning her head.
The body, just like her feet turns subconsciously toward the person she is interested in.
Most people don’t think about it.
Keep an eye on where her feet and body are in relation to you.
It is not a good sign if she speaks to you but doesn’t move her body toward yours.
4. She is touchy-feely about you
It is a well-known fact that people touch the person they love.
Jack Schafer, a behavior analyst, says that women may touch the arm of someone they are speaking too lightly. This is not a sign that she wants to have sex with you; it’s merely a gesture of affection.
If she starts to preen on you, it’s another sign that she likes your appearance. This could be as simple as picking up lint from your clothes or fixing something that is crooked.
You can also touch her lightly, as we have mentioned, to see if she likes you.
If she pulls away quickly, she isn’t comfortable. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. It all depends on how touchy-feely her skin is.
If she appears to be a touchy-feely individual with others, then it is not a good sign that she has left.
If she is nervous, it might take her some time to feel comfortable touching you, even though she may be interested in you.
5. She blushes whenever she is around you
Blushing occurs when someone’s face gets pink from shame or embarrassment.
When you receive an unexpected compliment or someone you like, it’s normal to blush.
If she blushes when you’re around her, it could be a sign she likes you.
But make sure she does not blush in front of others.
6. She will let you use her private space
Everyone values their personal space.
It is obvious that you wouldn’t allow someone you don’t like into your private space. Many women set boundaries to prevent men from coming too close to them.
If a girl allows you to be in her “physical space“, then it is likely that she likes you.
This is what I learned from Bobbi Rio, a relationship guru.
Truth is, love is psychological. If you want your partner to love you, then you have to play the game.
Watch his video to get your girl obsessed with you.
This video will show you that love is not always pretty.
7. Her pupils dilate
This one is more difficult to understand, but dilation in pupils can be a sign that you are attracted.
You can look into her eyes and observe if she has dilations.
Be aware that her pupils naturally dilate if she is suddenly blinded by the light.
8. She mimics your movements and gestures
This is a sign she loves you more than a friend. This is something that we all subconsciously do.
Pay attention to:
Are her hand gestures similar to yours? Are her energy levels similar to yours? Is she speaking slower than usual if you talk slowly? These are all signs that she may be interested in you.
If she likes your style, she will copy certain words, including slang, if you are a good friend.
9. She is at your side.
If she is interested in you and is forward-looking, she will be looking at your face and maintain eye contact with you when you touch eyes.
You may see her smile, or she might scan your face and do a double-take. This is a sign she likes you, and it’s not hard to see.
If she is shy or nervous, she might look at you when you touch eyes.
It’s a sign that she is interested in you if she turns her head away from you. This could indicate that she is interested in you but not wanting you to know.
(In my latest article, I explain why women don’t choose the man who has the most sense to be with them – instead they look for these three ‘body language cues. It’s available here.
10. She is preening on herself
What is preening? Preening is the act of fixing oneself in different ways.
You could adjust her clothes, run your fingers through her hair or put lipstick on her lips.
She wants to be around you and look better. Nerves can also play a role. When anxious or nervous, people are naturally fidgety.
Let’s face it, it’s pretty hot when a woman puts her together. Women subconsciously know this.
Monica M. Moore’s study found that women preen, pout, and primp when attracted to men in their immediate vicinity.
It’s not just a small level of attraction. These men pull these moves when they are attracted to men and want to let them know.
Here’s a 20-second example of preening. It’s slightly exaggerated, but women are more subtle than men unless they are very direct.
11. She tilts her head and leans in.
If she is leaning in to talk to you, it’s likely she’s trying tell you that she’s engaged. This is particularly true if you are with others. You are clearly the most engaging person in her life.
It is also a subconscious way for her to pull you in her direction, so you can have a little bit of a two on two.
Head tilting is a sign of interest and engagement. This is her way of letting you know that she’s there and participating in the conversation.
Respect this sign and be open to the conversation. Do not lean in. As you already have her attention, don’t appear needy.
Keep your eyes open and remain interested in the conversation.
12. She uses “open” body language
Are you comfortable with her?
It’s easy to tell if she is loose with her body language. Are her arms and legs spread out? This is a sign she is comfortable.
It doesn’t necessarily suggest that she is attracted, as she will be comfortable with friends.
It all depends on the context. If she uses loose body language and you don’t know her well, it’s a good sign that you are in a strong relationship.
When it comes to choosing a boyfriend, comfort is crucial for women.
This will also depend on her personality. If she is shy, it is unlikely that she will use loose body language with you even though she likes you.
However, if she is direct and confident, this body language can be a great indicator that she likes to talk with you.
13. She is visibly shy or nervous
If she likes and knows you well, she is more likely to be shy and nervous around you.
She might try to conceal her feelings for you but it won’t work.
She wants to make a good first impression.
Business Insider lists seven indicators that can be used to determine if someone is anxious:
They touch their faces. They may touch their face by pressing their cheeks, pushing their cheeks or rubbing their forehead.
They blink more often. Research has shown that people who are nervous tend to blink more often.
They clench their lips. This instinctual reaction is to protect ourselves against danger.
They love to play with their hair. It’s a great way to relieve anxiety. It can reduce stress.
They twist their hands. They may do this by either clenching their hands, rotating their hands back and forth in an awkward manner, or cracking their knuckles.
They rub their hands together.
They yawn frequently. Although this sounds strange, research has shown that yawning can help regulate body temperature by bringing cool air to the nose and mouth. The brain heats up when there is anxiety and stress.
If she is making these signs in front of you, it could indicate that she is nervous. This could also be a sign that she likes to be around you (assuming she doesn’t know you very well).
You’ll find that you can build a relationship with her as she gets to know your personality better.
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